Monday, January 30, 2012

Sickness is No Fun!

My little one has been sick since Wednesday! Here we are five days later and she's still got a throat that's so sore, she doesn't even want to swallow. The good news is that with pain medicine she's fine and she's had no fever since Saturday!

She was also able to go back to school today. Seeing her coming towards me to give me my lunch time hug was exactly what I needed.

I am so blessed to be a mom. It's amazing how the sight of your child can brighten your day!

Monday, January 23, 2012

Another First for Jennifer

This is going to sound so small, but I've learned that the smallest moments in life usually turn out to be the biggest moments. Today, I attempted to go to not one, but two grocery stores with both kids. I know that with one at 13 and the other 8, you're probably thinking...."And?" But this was a scary situation to forge into on a cold, wet Monday. I was able to get all of my groceries purchased, use coupons and keep my cool! That was MY first. So, what was Jennifer's first?

Every time I go shopping with her, I have to pray that her long legs will fit into the shopping carts, because keeping her with me has been so impossible without containing her. Too many distractions and not enough fear of strangers!

Today, she made it through a little more than half of our grocery shopping without being in the shopping cart. She chose to get out (she needed to pick out poptarts), but I never had to remind her to stay with me after that. She helped me shop and stayed right with me, even when her older brother ran to grab a last minute item for us.

I am so proud of her and can't wait to take her on another shopping trip!

Books Books Books

If you were to ask me what Jennifer's favorite thing to do is, I would have to say, "reading." Both of my children have a fabulous love for written words. Their Mema definitely gets the credit for first introducing them to the wonderful world of books.

When Jennifer was just 14 months old, I can remember her crawling across the livingroom floor after some books that I had gotten for Christmas from my mom. There was definitely nothing interesting on the books that caught her eye. These were more like text books. My new guides for helping Jennifer through her early development.

Fast forward eight years and she's still going after books. She reads in the bath tub. She reads before bed. She reads in the car. She reads walking into school. She reads in the grocery store. She reads signs we pass on the road. She reads clothing labels. She reads to her pets. She reads to her baby dolls. She reads anything and everything she can!

This weekend, while attending a Winter Wonderland birthday party, she heard the story Snowmen At Night. Later, when most kids were up running around playing in the "snowbox", sipping hot cocoa from snowman mugs or eating yummy winter desserts, I looked up to find Jennifer curled up in a chair reading. She didn't care if any of the other kids were interested in her. She just wanted to read.

And...Yes, she can read! She's reading on a first grade level and picks up more every day. There are times when she grabs up a book and just wants to take a picture walk, making up her very own story. But she CAN read the words on the pages.

She knows how to use the skills she's been taught to figure out word unfamiliar words. She looks for picture clues, uses her letter sound knowledge and context clues to help her when she's struggling. If she still can't figure out a word, she simply asks.

Today, her new word is "daily." She found this on the front of her reading bag. When she read it, she knew that the word didn't make sense to her. So she looked at me and said, "Daily?". I responded with a simple explanation of the word and then used it in a sentence. Jennifer immediately gave me her own sentence with the word. "Daisy goes camping daily." While our boston terrier doesn't go camping daily (unless you count her time in her kennel), it was a great sentence!

Never under estimate any child. I can't tell you how many times I've heard "children with Down syndrome can do the same things as other children, it will just take them longer." That's true, but...Who cares when little Johnny learned to skip or when Susie said her first word? All that matters is that I have an eight year old little girl that reads, writes, runs, skips, sings, dances, has distinct likes and dislikes. The best part is that she's learned these things all in God's perfect timing for her!

Sunday, January 22, 2012

The Oyster Princess

This weekend we decided to have some of our family and friends over for oysters. While everyone enjoyed the time together, I don't think there was anyone that enjoyed the oysters like our little girl. Jennifer was very excited about our oyster time.

When I began cleaning them Friday evening, she decided that she couldn't wait for our guests to arrive before she began eating. So, she grabbed an oyster and headed over to Daddy Nick to have it opened. She immediately devoured it raw and ran back to me for another!

As we began steaming, Jennifer grabbed oysters as quickly as we could get them opened and was very happy to showoff her love for this sea creature. I have never seen a child like to eat something that looks so nasty. But I'm thrilled that she has no fear when it comes to food!

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Report Card Time

This past Thursday, we received report cards for both Jonathan and Jennifer. I am excited to say that both made the Honor Roll! While Jonathan thinks getting good grades is a normal part of life, Jennifer gets super excited when she knows that she's done a good job. We just had to take a picture of her with her Honor Roll certificate.

Friday, January 13, 2012

Life Lessons

Last night, Jennifer and Jonathan were hit with the news that their dog (at Daddy's house) died. Rocky first came to live with us when Jonathan was just 2 years old. He was a great dog and a family member that will be missed greatly.
Today, we learned that another dog we owned died during the night also. Princess was the dog that I purchased with the kids after their dad and I divorced. Princess had recently gone to live with another family member due to her desire to be an only pet. She just didn't get along with other dogs.

With losing two pets within the day, the children were both not sure what to think. Jennifer's only experience with losing a pet was just over a week ago when her favorite dog at Grandma's house passed away. Jennifer and I were at my parents' when they buried Blanca.

Explaining to her what it means to have a pet die was not easy. She thought that the dogs were just sleeping. She told me over and over that Rocky was "real fine" and that he would wake up. She didn't actually understand until she walked into her dad's house this afternoon and saw that Rocky was not there. As Daddy explained to her what happened, she began to cry.

I'm not so glad that this is a lesson she had to learn. I would just assume that Jennifer be protected from all the bad in the world. But John and I always said that we would tell our kids the truth. Some truths are just easier to tell them than others.

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Family Photos

Our photographer posted our photos on her website today. As I showed them to Jennifer, she laid beside me blowing kisses to each of us in the pictures. When she saw a picture of Jonathan, she looked at me and said, "Momma, I love my Bubby so much!"

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Welcome Home

When the kids came home from seeing their dad tonight, I wasn't home from greeting the new baby yet. So, when I pulled into the driveway, Jennifer came running out lof the house to greet me. The first words I heard from her as she stretched out her arms were "Momma! I need a hug!" Who wouldn't want to come home to that? I love my daughter!

Babies, Babies!!!

We welcomed a new family member today, when my cousin gave birth to her first child. As I've mentioned before, Jennifer is very fascinated with babies.

As we were leaving school today, she had to tell everyone that Kristi was at the hospital having a baby. She followed that by saying, "Tomorrow Abigayle come to my house and play and eat candy!"

Obviously, Jennifer isn't in the know on baby development, but I'm hoping that the new little one will help teach her a little to prepare her for the day that Daddy Nick and I decide to have a baby. She is sooooo ready to have a younger sibling. She tells her teacher almost everyday that I'm having a baby....I'm not pregnant!

I'll have to warn my cousin that Jennifer does think that Abigayle is going to come to our house. She told me tonight that she was going to sleep in a cradle in her room. Guess it's time for me to really get serious about having another baby. Otherwise, Jennifer may be trying to sneak Abigayle out of her house. :-)

Monday, January 9, 2012

Homework Time

One thing that Jennifer has taught me, is to rethink homework time. I have let her show me what works best for HER! Yes, we still get her homework assigned by her teacher completed, but we "tweak" the assignment.

Tonight's homework included writing her spelling words five times each, reading her new story from her reading book and practicing this week's sight word list. Jennifer is able to copy words without problem, but with her spelling words I like to show her, visually, how many times to write her words.

Rather than having her just look at a list of spelling words and telling her to write her words five times. I show her what I want. I write each word in red ink and then follow it with five blanks. One blank for each time she is to write the word. She is usually able to complete this within five minutes.

We're just getting back from Christmas break and she's still wanting to see how much she can push Momma and Daddy Nick during homework time, but she CAN finish in five minutes or less.

I was at our son's academic team meet tonight and Daddy Nick was on homework duty. So, when it was time to read her new story Nick sat her down to read with him. We always read with the book right in front of Jennifer and with us giving her our undivided attention. We want her to know that this time is not only important for her, but also for us.

We read the story to her once and then she follows with reading the story to one of us. Sometimes she'll also want to climb into Bubba's lap to read to him too. She LOVES to read! For extra practice we read her new story before we go to bed and she reads it to me on the way to school the next morning.

Practicing sight words is a fairly simple task of just having her read the words to me from her list. We also go back and review words from old lists, even if she can already read the word independently.

Keep in mind that homework time is not time to argue with your child. If you find that she is struggling with an assignment, meet her where she is and work from there. Also, remember to make it fun. Yes, it may require you to think outside the box a little and spend extra time preparing for homework, but it's worth it.

Knowing that our homework strategies are helping Jennifer learn and preparing her for her tests at the end of each week is our goal. Making the homework less frustrating means that she is going to focus on the assignment better and be more likely to retain the knowledge she is learning.

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Coupon Princess

This past summer I became an official couponer and got my entire family involved. When school started in August, I quickly saw my couponing time diminish. I started the new year with the desire to find the time I'd lost.

This evening, Jennifer walked into the kitchen and discovered the newspaper laying on the table. I didn't realize this until I turned to see why she was singing, "Oh yeah! Oh yeah!" and shaking her booty. She had, in one hand, today's Smart Source coupon insert! That's my Coupon Princess!!!

I guess, I'll definitely be finding that time. Especially, since Jennifer has decided that she wants to read the coupons to me. :-)

Say "Cheese!"

Our first family photos were a success thanks to our wonderful photographer, Crystal McGuire. I can't wait to see the pictures. Jennifer was her usual, take control, self.

She ordered us around letting us know how SHE wanted us positioned. The good news is that for a little while she was actually willing to agree with Crystal. But when Jennifer was finished listening to her there was no convincing this little girl to cooperate. Another one of the joys of Down syndrome.

Jennifer has an amazing ability to stand her ground. Call it stubbornness or determination. Either way, she knows what she wants and will let nothing stand in her way.

Saturday, January 7, 2012

How much wood could a Woodchuck chuck?

Today was wood splitting day at our house and Daddy Nick had a few friends over to help. As usual, Jennifer decided to steal the show and make one of his buddies entertain her. I think this friend was prepared to sit back and relax while the other guys did the work. What he didn't know was that our little girl had other plans for him. She made the poor guy play with her, barked orders at him and wore him slap out!

We are so thankful for our wonderful friends that love Jennifer!

Barbie Time!

Jennifer has had her Barbie dolls put away in her closet for a few years. Mainly because she enjoyed babydolls much more. She has a fascination with babies. Grandma (my mom) gave her a set of Disney Princess dolls for Christmas and we finally opened the box today. Watching the way she played with the dolls and the excitement in her eyes, told me that it was time to get the Barbies back out.

She LOVED playing with them and did a great job putting them back into the appropriate toy tub! Just having her actually put toys away without me asking her ten times and still not accomplishing anything was AMAZING! This is the very first time she's ever put toys away at home.

That leads me to talking about how you'll find that I'll often write about Jennifer's firsts. With my son, Jonathan, he grew up so fast that I found myself unable to keep up with all of his milestones. Having a little one with Down syndrome has made me take the time to truely appreciate each and every accomplishment.

Friday, January 6, 2012

Welcome to Adventures in Jennifer!

This is my very first blog and another tasks I'm taking on to share with the world just how special my little girl Jennifer is!

I gave birth to Jennifer eight years ago. From the moment I looked into her eyes, I knew that she was special. No, her father and I did not opt for any testing to prepare us for the journey of raising a child with special needs. We welcomed her into the world and five days later it was confirmed...Our Jennifer was diagnosed with Trisomy 21.

In the last eight years, I've learned more about the world than I ever would have without this little girl. She is an amazing gift from God and our entire family would agree!

Jennifer has an older brother, Jonathan. I can honestly say that I've never known another brother that has loved his sister so much. He is an awesome "Bubba" (Jennifer's nickname for him)!

Jennifer lives with her brother, Daddy Nick and me. We also have some four-legged family members. Our two dogs are Mr. Pickles and Daisy. Our cat is named Caspian. Jennifer and Jonathan also spend a lot of time with their Daddy.

So, there are the nuts and bolts of Jennifer. She has three parents, one brother, many pets and happens to have Down syndrome. I hope you enjoy getting to know her!